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Seth Koh's avatar

My condolences. I lost my mom when I was 16. It's Jesus who gives me Hope to continue living with Joy.

God is faithful. Stay Joyful.

We'll see His Kingdom and people again in Heaven! Keeping you in prayers!

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Heidi Tai's avatar

Thanks for reading this one and sorry to hear of the early loss of your mother. That must have been a painful experience. Encouraged by the hope and joy you have in God. The reunion in heaven will be precious! 🙏🏻

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Amber Bennett's avatar

Im sorry for your loss Heidi. A heartening read. As always thank you for your way with words.

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Heidi Tai's avatar

Thank you for leaving this word of encouragement, Amber. It means a lot to me this year.

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Michael Wong (Mizko) ⚡️'s avatar

Beautifully written 🙏

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Heidi Tai's avatar

Thanks Sai Lou 🤍🤍🤍

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Kym VdP's avatar

Im so sorry for your loss Heidi 💛 what a comfort that you'll see him on that first morning in the New Jerusalem! Until then, I hope you feel God's nearness in you and your family's grief. Beautifully written ✨

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Heidi Tai's avatar

Thank you, Kym. This means a lot to me.

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Kathy Young's avatar

I can see so much of my father-in-law in yours so my heart breaks for your loss. This was a beautiful tribute and I appreciate you sharing from such a vulnerable place. Sending your family love and prayers

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Heidi Tai's avatar

Thank you, Kathy. This means a lot to us!

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Brianna Brown's avatar

I'm so sorry for your loss. Holding you all in my prayers as you grieve this significant loss.

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Heidi Tai's avatar

Thank you, Brianna. Appreciate your prayers and kindness to us. x

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Kat Fernandez's avatar

Sending you, Mikey and the family my condolences, Heidi! Praying that God gives each of you peace and comfort during this time. Thank you for sharing this letter with us ❤️

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Heidi Tai's avatar

Thank you, Kat. This means a lot. xx

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Ruhie Vaidya's avatar

Heidi, what a touching tribute to your father-in-law who sounds like a wonderful man. A typical Asian man of that generation in many ways with his hard work ethic and service to others, yet beyond his time in his capacity for open-mindedness and broadening his horizons. He sounds a lot like my dad. I relate so deeply to reliving and regretting your last interaction ❤️‍🩹 that’s really tough. I’m so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family 🫶 Thank you for sharing this beautiful letter!

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Heidi Tai's avatar

Thank you, Ruhie. Your words mean so much and hold so much weight for me. I know you say all of it from a place of deep empathy. Love that my Ba could remind you of yours. We'll never fully understand the struggles of that generation or the sacrifices they made for us. Thank you for reading and sharing. It means a lot to me. xx

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Lani V. Cox's avatar

You were able to say goodbye, it just wasn't what you thought it would be. And with your tribute to him you're saying another. I'm sorry about your loss, Heidi. Your father-in-law sounds like a remarkable man. I'm glad he was surrounded by his loved ones.

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Heidi Tai's avatar

Thank you for reading, Lani. He was very remarkable and so loved by the Tai Clan.

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Beate Teale's avatar

My condolences to you , Heidi. I have great respect for Celia -the only one in your clan that I know. Love your writing, xx

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Heidi Tai's avatar

Thank you for reading, Beate. I too have such respect for Celia and feel so blessed by all my sister in laws who are equally awesome. Thanks for supporting my words and giving this tribute your time. xx

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Jason Kuan's avatar

Thanks for writing this. It was very heartwarming and encouraging.

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Heidi Tai's avatar

Thanks Jason, this means a lot!

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